A parent tries to teach their daughter
to be good, always helpful to other people
to be fair, always treating others equally
to have a positive attitude at all times
to always make things right even
when they are wrong
to know herself very well
to know what her talents are
to set goals for herself
to not be afraid of working too hard
to reach her goals . . .
A parent tries to teach their daughter
to have many interests to pursue
to laugh and have fun every day
to appreciate the beauty of nature
to enter into friendships with good people
to honor their friendships and always be a true friend
to appreciate the importance of the family
and to particularly respect and love our elder members
to use her intelligence at all times
to listen to her emotions
to adhere to her values
A parent tries to teach their daughter
to not be afraid to stick to her beliefs
to not follow the majority when the majority is wrong
to carefully plan a life for herself
to vigorously follow her chosen path
to enter into a relationship with someone worthy of herself
to love this person unconditionally with her body and mind
to share all that she has learned in life with this person . . .
If I have provided you with an insight
into most of these things
then I have succeeded
as a parent
in what I hoped to accomplish in raising you
If many of these things slipped by
while we were all so busy
I have a feeling that you know them anyway
One thing I am sure of, though
I have taught you to be proud of the fact
that you are a woman equal to all men and
I have loved you every second of your life
I have supported you at all times
as a parent, as a person, and as a friend
even during the times you thought I wasn't there for you.
You have become a young woman I am very proud to call
"my daughter" and even in the worst of times, somehow
you understood the things I tried to teach you .
You are the proudest accomplishment of my life.
Nothing I do in this life will ever compare to the
joy of having you as my child.
I will always continue to cherish
and love
everything about you my
beautiful daughter
Love to you,
Mom